Bring the fun to your butt! It’s time to get real: anal can either be really great or a real pain in the rear. A common mistake first-timers make is having tense muscles and anxious nerves. This can easily be resolved with a few tricks!  

Start by warming up your rear! Engage in your favorite foreplay, get a booty massage from your lover and even tease your rim. Then, apply a dime-sized amount of anal desensitizer gel to your anal opening. Within 3-5 minutes, active ingredient lidocaine is hard at work relaxing your muscles and numbing your nerves.  

This gel is even available in a wide variety of yummy flavors like Strawberry, Arctic Blast and Cupcake. These flavors keep it fresh between the bum & are perfect for enhancing anilingus (another great way to warm up before anal)!  

This is not a lubricant, so be sure to combine with your preferred lube to enhance your pleasure. Silicone-based or anal lubes are great when playing with a partner. Try water-based lubes when playing with silicone toys.